{"id":388,"date":"2020-08-26T14:56:37","date_gmt":"2020-08-26T14:56:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mattdavisyoga.com\/?p=388"},"modified":"2020-08-26T15:08:55","modified_gmt":"2020-08-26T15:08:55","slug":"why-i-love-healthy-boundaries","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mattdavisyoga.com\/?p=388","title":{"rendered":"Why I Love Healthy Boundaries"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.6&#8243;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.6&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.6&#8243;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.6&#8243; text_font_size=&#8221;22px&#8221;]<\/p>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"f88bj\" data-offset-key=\"4nd65-0-0\">\n<div data-offset-key=\"4nd65-0-0\" class=\"public-DraftStyleDefault-block public-DraftStyleDefault-ltr\"><span data-offset-key=\"4nd65-0-0\">In the past, I was often drawn to people who showed no interest in me. It&#8217;s a habit I&#8217;ve broken, but the other day I was having lunch with a friend. I realized they hadn&#8217;t asked me a question about myself in 20 minutes. <\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"f88bj\" data-offset-key=\"e03l1-0-0\">\n<div data-offset-key=\"e03l1-0-0\" class=\"public-DraftStyleDefault-block public-DraftStyleDefault-ltr\"><span data-offset-key=\"e03l1-0-0\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"f88bj\" data-offset-key=\"9dm0a-0-0\">\n<div data-offset-key=\"9dm0a-0-0\" class=\"public-DraftStyleDefault-block public-DraftStyleDefault-ltr\"><span data-offset-key=\"9dm0a-0-0\">Oh, no, I thought. I&#8217;ve done it again. <\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"f88bj\" data-offset-key=\"a543d-0-0\">\n<div data-offset-key=\"a543d-0-0\" class=\"public-DraftStyleDefault-block public-DraftStyleDefault-ltr\"><span data-offset-key=\"a543d-0-0\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"f88bj\" data-offset-key=\"fe6e1-0-0\">\n<div data-offset-key=\"fe6e1-0-0\" class=\"public-DraftStyleDefault-block public-DraftStyleDefault-ltr\"><span data-offset-key=\"fe6e1-0-0\">This week I learned how to turn off the audio notifications on Slack. I&#8217;m in a work collaborative with some friends and the little &#8220;click click click&#8221; sound got too much. Like, I&#8217;d be chilling. Concentrating on a piece of work. Then CLICK CLICK CLICK. <\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"f88bj\" data-offset-key=\"5assf-0-0\">\n<div data-offset-key=\"5assf-0-0\" class=\"public-DraftStyleDefault-block public-DraftStyleDefault-ltr\"><span data-offset-key=\"5assf-0-0\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"f88bj\" data-offset-key=\"5h6s9-0-0\">\n<div data-offset-key=\"5h6s9-0-0\" class=\"public-DraftStyleDefault-block public-DraftStyleDefault-ltr\"><span data-offset-key=\"5h6s9-0-0\">We all have the power to nourish ourselves and set healthy boundaries. Nobody has the right to intrude on our time unless we invite them. <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=_TjPhXHqfeE&amp;feature=youtu.be\">This week&#8217;s free yoga class<\/a><\/strong><\/span> focuses on finding a sense of calm and assertiveness within. And on drawing healthy boundaries without. <\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"f88bj\" data-offset-key=\"3pm2c-0-0\">\n<div data-offset-key=\"3pm2c-0-0\" class=\"public-DraftStyleDefault-block public-DraftStyleDefault-ltr\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"f88bj\" data-offset-key=\"afm9r-0-0\">\n<div data-offset-key=\"afm9r-0-0\" class=\"public-DraftStyleDefault-block public-DraftStyleDefault-ltr\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=_TjPhXHqfeE&amp;feature=youtu.be\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>I&#8217;ll see you on the mat. <\/strong><\/span><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"f88bj\" data-offset-key=\"aft0e-0-0\">\n<div data-offset-key=\"aft0e-0-0\" class=\"public-DraftStyleDefault-block public-DraftStyleDefault-ltr\"><span data-offset-key=\"aft0e-0-0\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"\" data-block=\"true\" data-editor=\"f88bj\" data-offset-key=\"3fd9s-0-0\">\n<div data-offset-key=\"3fd9s-0-0\" class=\"public-DraftStyleDefault-block public-DraftStyleDefault-ltr\"><span data-offset-key=\"3fd9s-0-0\">P.S. it&#8217;s this week&#8217;s vegetarian recipe! 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